Discussion Questions
1. Ellen has a tough childhood, especially once her family moves into the Absaloms. How does Ellen’s youth shape her? Were you surprised to learn of Ellen’s difficult past?
2. How did you feel about Ellen’s marriage to Selwyn? Do you agree with her decision to sacrifice the possibility of a family at such a young age? Why or why not?
3. If Ellen doesn’t want children, why does Pamela affect her as she does? Discuss how their relationship evolves. How does Pamela change Ellen?
4. In the beginning, Selwyn is less willing than Ellen to bring Pamela into their home. Why? Does his opinion change over time? How does fatherhood change Selwyn? How is his experience with Pamela different from Ellen’s?
5. Do you agree with Ellen’s decision to let Pamela leave with Aubrey? Why or why not? If you disagree, what would you have done? What life do you think would have been best for Pamela?
6. How does World War II change the villagers of Upton? How does it change Ellen? In what ways would this novel be different if it had been set in a time of peace?
7. Through poverty and success, Ellen is supported by many people in Upton. How do these friendships shape her life? Do you feel as though you have a similar community in your life? Why or why not?
8. On p. 310, Lucy and Ellen reflect on their choices, and Lucy tells Ellen if she’d married Bob Coward, she might have "got the full bowl." What does Lucy mean? How does Ellen feel about the question? Do you think she got "the full bowl" in the end?
9. How is Penny different than Pamela? Why do you think Ellen conflates the two? What does Penny teach Ellen?
10. Were you surprised by the ending? Why or why not?
(Questions issued by the publisher.)
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